Girl On Girl: 10 Myths About Lesbians!

People have preconceived notions about who lesbians are, what lesbians look like, who lesbians are attracted to and who lesbians want to be. Let's take a look at these myths about lesbians and shine some light on the facts.

1) All Lesbians Hate Men

Fact: Just because lesbians are sexually and emotionally attracted to women, does not mean they hate or even dislike men. In fact, many lesbians love men and develop friendships with males much easier and quicker than heterosexual women.

2) Lesbians (especially butch lesbians) Want To Be Men

Fact: Lesbians who's appearances are more androgynous or masculine do so because they feel comfortable being that way. The fact is, there is a diversity of gender expression among all women (and men) no matter what their sexual orientation. People who want to change their sex are called transsexual - not lesbian.

3) You Don't Know if You're a Lesbian Unless You Sleep With A Woman

Fact: Just as heterosexual people can know they are straight without ever having sex, lesbians too can know they are attracted to women without ever having to sleep with one. Coming out is a natural, organic process and there is not "quick" way to figure out if you are indeed a lesbian or not.

4) Lesbians Are Attracted To All Women

Fact: Just because someone is a lesbian does not mean she's going to hit on you or be attracted to you. Heterosexual men don't find ALL women attractive and heterosexual women don't find ALL men attractive. Lesbians are no different to heterosexuals in this respect.

5) Being A Lesbian Is A Lifestyle Choice And Can Be Changed

Fact: More and more studies are discovering evidence that sexual orientation is not something that one chooses, rather it is an inborn trait, found not only in humans, but in most animals species. Contrary to what the religious right-wing preaches, counselling to "make someone straight" just doesn't work.

6) Lesbian Relationships Are All About Sex

Fact: Sure lesbians have sex, but like heterosexual relationships, sex is not all there is to lesbian relationships. Lesbians connect with each other on an emotional and spiritual level and if they're lucky, have great sex too. Like straight people, lesbians create families and have children (or choose not to.)

7) Lesbians Just Haven't Met The Right Guys

Fact: Many lesbians haven't met the right woman yet, but meeting a man has nothing to do with it.

8) You Can Tell a Lesbian By The Way She Looks Or Dresses

Fact: Lesbians and gay men claim to have something called "gaydar", which is really just an intuition about whether or not someone is gay. Gaydar isn't right all of the time and since many people still live in the closet, there's no way to tell for sure if someone is a lesbian. Unless she tells you, of course.

9) One Lesbian In A Relationship Has To Be A Man

Fact: Although some lesbian couples are butch/femme, both are clearly women. Neither wants to be a man nor acts like a man. And butch/femme is not the only type of lesbian relationship. Femmes and butches can be paired together, or more likely, both women don't claim any butch or femme label.

10) Lesbians and Gays Can't Be Spiritual

Fact: Some religions may consider homosexuality to be a sin, but many churches, including many Christian churches, welcome and accept all people just the way God created them.

Adult Toys for Women Couples - Guide to Adult Toys for Women Couples

If one is not a gay woman or have never examined such kind of sexual love games with woman lover, you just can imagine what they actually wish to achieve in their erotic love affair. Of course, the fantasy may prompt 1000000 of ideas for their sex and the ways to accomplish the ultimate pleasure. And not the last place in this process is taken by adult sex toys that can replace in some cases male penises. Several sex stores and online depots offer the great class called sex toys for lesbians including a variety of devices that may be helpful for sapphic twosomes.
In general terms lesbians are women and adult toys for them should be desired in the section of female adult toys. Here is a small guide that will help you to know what sex toys are best suitable and what intimate games they can accompany. Vibrators and dildos, these are the most commonly used adult toys that are the real rescue for individuals and their better halves without such passion tools as members. There is not any question that "actual intercourse" is enjoyable and stirring and the entire range of sense experiences can be reached by anal or vaginal insertion. Any woman's erotic response will be enhanced by stimulating her inside erogenous zones. Sex toy adult vibrators and dildos are the optimum suitable adult toys for that. The mixture of vibrators on the market is enormous and sometimes it is quite difficult to choose.
In the case of anal or vaginal penetration and for double vaginal penetration during the sapphic fun. Special device: Gay may use two-ended vibrators and dildos intended for double penetration that give more chances for diversifying their intimate life. Yes, it could be very much excited to feel the vacillating pleasure simultaneously and as well reach sexual bliss together. Harness is a really handy device that seems like a part of gear or underclothes with or without straps securely holding a vibrator or dildo and worn on the waistline or any other part of the body.
Lesbians often use them in their erotic explorations. There are harnesses that bring the pleasure to both partners during use: e.g., those that are equipped by arousers for clitoric stimulation of the person wearing. This is the most absorbing model of harness that brings the endless possibilities to both partners.
To imitate a heterosexual couple's sex Two-ended dildo harnesses allows also the double stimulation of both women partners at the identical time. There are also some variants for anal penetration of the wearer. bondage Accoutrements Bondage accessories are nice comrades for the diversified lesbian games and for role play. The roles of controlling and submissive partners can give a range of wild moments and explore the secret dimensions of their sexuality. bondage games allow the participants to get rid of taboos and biases in the bed, but this kind of games is mostly the matter of preference. Such accessories as masks, whip sets, manacles, gags, collars, bondage gear, clamps, etc. help to obtain much more satisfaction in role-playing.
For special experience during randy games (with vibrators and foreplays with playing different roles. There is not any great BDSM device intended alone for females, but maybe women BDSM toys is not used by men. The most common is cat costume made normally of the snug shine black latex material that emphasises the beauty of the maidenly trunk giving her a much more desirable and seductive appearance.